Australian Living

While we patiently wait for a baby, we are still living life. Things like Uni are semi “on hold” (still doing assignments, but a bit behind in lectures) as we prepare for this baby. Other things are full steam ahead. Last week we bought a kitchen off eBay, a beautiful deep blue marbly benchtop, plenty of cupboards and lots of bench space, and all appliances included! I went to Toowoomba on Thursday to start dismantling it. If you’ve never dismantled a kitchen before, it’s quite an experience. Getting cupboards apart is the easy part, getting some of the cupboards out is not so easy, getting benchtops out is next to impossible when Pythagoras says it’s impossible. Luckily, the joins between benchtop sections are just “biscuit” and glue joins and are cleanly broken with a bit of patience. Most of the kitchen was dismantled on the Thursday, and then on Saturday we headed up with a few more people, the bus and a big car trailer to finish the removal and bring it all home. Finally the kitchen is removed, and has been taken down to the block to await assembly.

After unloading the kitchen, we headed down to the creek for a swim. This has been the most fun swimming we’ve had with Nathan yet! He absolutely loved it, swimming in his birthday suit, splashing everyone, throwing himself in. Then we found a rock which makes great body point, it’s probably Ochre or something similar. So we started painting Nathan with it, which he loved, and started doing himself. He even went as far as grabbing mud and splashing it on himself to make our little tribal warrior. We have some great photos and videos from it, which we’ll have to post sometime.

It was while I was down at the creek, taking photos of my family splashing around in the water, with the setting sun casting beautiful colours across the water, that I started to think about what traditional Aussie living must have been like. While it wouldn’t have been care free, it would have included beautiful moments like that, out off the beaten track, with kids playing surrounded by Australia’s beautiful features. Here was my family, starting a journey to “build our house” at the block, surrounded by natural beauty. So far, nothing about building our home has been easy, without power yet, we’ve been using brute force and battery powered tools to pull out the cupboards that are built-in to the barracks. Sara has spent many hours removing nails from the timber that we’ve pulled our, and sorting it for later reuse. We’ve spent lots of time cutting grass, trees and prickly bushes, clearing away to “rubbish” vegetation so we can eventually plant nice trees that are suitable around the house. We’ve battled an out of control grass fire that threatened the house. We’ve already lost 3 chooks to other occupants of the land. And it’s all been hard work, but real work, work that’s worth it. And we’ve enjoyed it so much.

And even with all this hard work, Australia continues to show what it is. Our neighbour has fixed up some of our fences for nothing, clearing along them, fixing the gate and stringing new wires. Yes, it’s so his cattle can keep using some of our property, but he didn’t just do a half ditched effort to just keep his cattle in, he did a proper job, spending a decent amount of his time and resources to ensure we had a good fence. The person we bought the kitchen off, gave us a laundry as well, which was another beautiful blue benchtop, a sink and cupboard. Many friends have helped with everything, from pulling out the kitchen, to unloading it, to mowing grass, to cutting down tree’s! Everywhere we turn, Australia is there to help us. Someone even just loaned us a generator so we can have power until electricity is finally connected!

I’m very excited about our eventual move out to the block, as being in that area, really feels like the good ol Aussie spirit that is missing from the city and even rural areas. People want to help, and do help. And nature is beautiful, and you can live! You can go swimming in the creek, light a fire and have billy tea. You can let your children swim in their birthday suits, all painted in beautiful earthy colours. You can stop and listen, and hear the sounds of nature instead of the cars driving past. You can look up at the night sky and see so many stars, so many more than many city people realise are visible! You can build a bush cubby as your secret hiding place. You can just live.

Having had such a good Saturday, we headed up to Toowoomba on Sunday morning for church, with worship music blasting in the car. Having had a break from youth, worship team, cleaning and the other 101 things we do at church, it felt good to be seeing our church family again, and to already be in the presence of God before we got there! And church just felt alive. Of course, life catches up and brings its stresses with it too. Now I’ve got the stress of 3 assignments, being behind on some of my lectures, and now not sure how our visit to Perth will look in June as my last exam happens to fall after the wedding, ick. So while we continue to wait for our newest family member to make an appearance, I’ll continue plodding through boring Uni, and keep working out how we can live a more relaxed lifestyle, a more traditional lifestyle with less stress, and more fun!

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Are You Happy?

A friend of mine just sent me a three word email. It simply said, Are you happy?

And my initial, gut response surprised me. Yes. Very much so.

I have a beautiful little boy who makes my whole world light up.
I have a husband who is one of the most just, kind and helpful men I know.
I am waiting on a little baby to join our incredible family.
I am loved, I am unique.
I have a place in this world, and I have a purpose.
I see God at work around me in every situation that I face.
I’m not alone.
I have friends that I can rely on, and a church that I belong to.
I am going places, I have a future and it is bright.

Truthfully, it is the first time that I have felt confident in responding like that in quite some time. Perhaps four years. And the fact that I felt such peace and confidence surprised me.

It makes me wonder whether the stress and the lack of time with my family to study is really worth it. There is no way I felt like this last year. And yes, I am far behind with my studies this semester, but heck, I’m happy!

So who cares if it takes me five or six years to finish a three year degree. I am happy. My family is happy. We are healthy. We have fun. We are together and totally in love with each other. I love living like this. This is life to the full, and this is what Jesus called us to live.

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Perfect Days

The last few weeks have seen us preparing for the birth of our newest member. After being forced to cut down on things rather suddenly when all the craziness with babies growth occurred, we have been having a lot more time on our hands. Well I have been. Tim has worked for the last two weeks for his old boss who broke his hand playing cricket, but he has been getting home and heading to mum and dads block most afternoons to get stuff done.

Today was the most incredible family day ever. We woke up, and had a lazy cuddly morning in bed, until Nathan got frustrated and wanted breakfast. After breakfast we headed back to bed. I had some labour nigglings yesterday afternoon and really thought that things might be heating up, so when I put Nathan to bed last night, I really did expect that it would be the last night we said goodnight to just one of our children. But this morning there was nothing, so we decided to make a family day of it.

We got all dressed up and went to Toowoomba to see a movie for the first time as a family. Kids under two are free, so we figured we had five days to get his ticket in. We went and saw the Lorax, and Nathan loved it! He was so still and attentive, sitting on his cushion, drinking his sars cordial and eating popcorn. He giggled in the funniest and often inappropriate spots, for instance when the first tree got chopped down, and danced to the musical numbers. It was just a beautiful morning out.

We headed to the shops afterwards and finally bought a name book. Names are still not even remotely decided, in fact we think we may have to go back to the drawing board. Ran into an old friend who I have been thinking about a whole lot lately, which was very unexpected but made my day. We had lunch, Tim cleaned the church and we checked out a kitchen for our place at mum and dads. Came home via my folks place and made home-made pizzas for dinner. It just feels like one of those days that I want to capture forever, and relive over and over.

I feel like every day in the last week or two has been like that. I’ve been feeling great, and I’m realising how much different life is when I take it a little slower. When I have time to make pancakes for breakfast and keep the house clean. When I can sit down with Nathan and play with his blocks and puzzles. His favourite toy at the moment is some flashcards that I borrowed from mums home-schooling supplies. Now that he’s talking, he pulls us by the hand and takes us to the bench with the cards on it, and makes us sit with him and speak through his cards. I just get so much joy from watching him grow, and living life with him.

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Baby & Nathan’s Wish List

Some people have asked us about things that we need or want for the babies arrival, so I have started making a list. When baby bonus comes in then I will start grabbing some of these things, and some of them are considerably pricey, and I’m not expecting anyone to buy anything for us. Just for those who asked, here it is.

  1. Summer cot sheets (We have predominantly flannelette)
  2. Change Mat Cover
  3. Phil & Teds Nest Bassinet
  4. sBaby Beehind Magic-Alls Nappies with Snaps
    http://www.babybeehinds.com.au/store/pc/Magic-Alls-All-In-One-Minkee-with-Snaps-13p14.htm
    We are probably going to get a bulk pack to bring the price down a bit. They are $30 a nappy, but we’ve loved using cloth nappies, and just need some more to do it full time.
  5. Hotmilk Nursing Bras
  6. Fabric for Baby Quilt

I am hoping to have a baby warming soon after our little one arrives rather than having a baby shower. This will hopefully give you all a chance to meet and cuddle little White Junior, and share our family’s joy.

Nathan turns 2 in a few weeks, 20 April. As of yet, we don’t have anything really planned. I’m waiting to see if I can hold out on having this baby until then. Jokes. We will probably have an afternoon tea with some friends and family, maybe crash my sisters birthday party. 🙂 The more casual we leave it, the less running around and crazy work we will have to do with our little newborn. As far as presents for him, I’m looking to get him toys to stimulate his imagination. So his list at the moment is –

Wooden Peg Jigsaw Puzzles
Cars
Wooden Train Tracks
(To add to his Ikea set)
Size 1 Shorts
Washable Markers
Large Chunky Plastic Farm or Jungle Animals
– Does anybody know what I mean? We had them as kids and had endless fun with them.
Playdough
– If somebody wanted to make him some. I’m slack and haven’t gotten around to it yet.
Slide – This is just a big wish list item for him. 🙂
Books –
To add to the pile of a hundred stories I read to him a day.

We got given some play equipment a few weeks ago, and he absolutely loves it. He’s such a little boy, a little monkey. He’s not even two, and he’s going skitso jumping on the trampoline and climbing on the bars of the swing set. Not swinging, that’s far too boring.

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Crazy Weeks

The last few weeks have been a bit of a roller coaster in many ways. Emotionally, and time wise. Just how life has played out.

It feels like nearly a quarter of the year has gone, and there is little to show for it. I fight that with the truth, which is that our lifestyle has changed fairly significantly, we are in a new house. We are both studying, and even though that doesn’t feel like progress, it means that the assessments we have done never have to be repeated. There are a few months less that we ever have to do.

I got sent off for a growth scan about two weeks ago because as the pregnancy has progressed, my measurements have been lagging behind what they should more and more significantly. I started to feel like something wasn’t right, so we called it quits and went to have another scan.

We had tried to avoid them in this pregnancy because with Nathan we had about 5. A dating scan early on, then the normal 18-20 week morphology scan. On that scan they noticed a shadowy region in his stomach and the cord was around his neck. Next scan showed the shadowy region was nothing, but then they got curious about the cord around his neck. So they had a couple more scans just to check on that cord (morons) and to check on weight and stuff. A little fact for you all, the cord is around babies neck in about 1/3 of births. Midwives just slip it over the head, it doesn’t cause any issues and you as a mother would barely ever know. Nothing scary about it.
All that to say we were needlessly worried and bothered for nothing. It wasn’t even around his neck when he was born.

So this time around we wanted to avoid the stress, inaccuracy and ultimately unproven safety of ultrasounds. We did the 18 week scan because knowing placental position is quite helpful.

The scan we had showed a significant discrepancy between the size of the babies head and stomach. This pretty much indicated that the baby was starving itself to get nutrients to the head, indicating IUGR, growth restriction. Blood tests and bp at that time were also not positive regarding my own health. So upon consultation with my GP and advice from an obstetrician, I had monitoring regularly with repeat scans to check on babies wellbeing. We bulked up my diet with protein and other natural remedies and prayed. A lot of praying. By a lot of people.

I said to my friend during that time that with the amount of people praying there was no way things could go badly!
And I swear over the first week of doing that I felt my belly grow.
We had another scan just over a week later which showed that there was no problem with the baby whatsoever. The first scan could not have been so extremely wrong, but the problem could not have just fixed itself in a week either. I am convinced that it was God proving again that this baby is a miracle, and covered by His blessing.

The story behind this baby even existing is a pretty awesome one.

But during that whole time, and even now to be honest, I haven’t felt the best. I’ve been getting tired and weak very quickly. I feel nauseous and dizzy and breathless most of the time. Mum took Nathan for two nights and a day last week so I could get some rest, and I really needed it. I’ve taken a break from church responsibilities too, we didn’t even go on Sunday (The first time in… a very long time). I’ve barely been getting out of the house so I’m missing people, but I don’t feel up to doing very much. I don’t remember feeling anything like this at the end of my pregnancy with Nathan. If I went into labour right now, I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t be able to jump up, go to Kings Park and then do a crazy morning tour of the city before coming home to have the baby, and not because I don’t live in Perth anymore.

Tim is wanting the baby to come before Easter. I still don’t feel prepared for its arrival, and so I don’t expect it will be very soon, but before Easter would be nice. I’m just hoping that when it makes its grand entrance that my health will start to pick up a bit, I will feel a bit better.

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